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About a year ago, I broke up with a gentleman who felt I was too portly for his tastes. (I'm a size 6. In who's world is that portly??) I told him to go date Heidi Klum with my blessing. Since then, I've done a lot of thinking about the kind of society that produces a physical aesthetic whos daily calorie quota is 800 or less.

I just received the latest Victoria's Secret catalog, and I think I understand. There is a new model on the cover--well, one I don't recognize anyway--and she is beautiful. Big, pouty lips, long hair with enthusiasm all its own, a jaw structure to die for. But her body...she has the figure of my 7-year-old sister. I'm not making use of exaggeration here. She truly looks like a child. No hips, no breasts, no shape. There is a picture of her leaning over, elbow on her knee, and the contrast in thickness between arm and leg is almost unnoticeable.

Toward the middle of the catalog is a spread of nubile-girl in various poses of sexual bliss. It's soft porn at its finest (of course, I read the VS catalog for the articles) but with a Jon Benet look-alike as the centerfold. I felt sick to my stomach.

I wonder if femininity is on the outs. We've become so obsessed with fat count that today's "attractive" women are either breakable or bulging with muscle. I've decided that I like my curves. I like having breasts and hips and a slight softness in my thighs. I like filling out my clothes in all the right places, and I love the fact that my body is very different from my baby sister's.

And after breaking up with jerk-boy, I've decided that I'm not going to bust my butt trying to lose those last 5 pounds. No matter how beautiful the next VS cover child is.

Date: 2004-10-06 01:47 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dark-geisha.livejournal.com
How the hell is size 6 portly?!?! My mom is a size 8 petite and everyone says she's tiny! That she's, in fact, tinier than me & I wear a smaller size. D: D: D:

Date: 2004-10-06 04:11 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] everyonesakitty.livejournal.com
yeah, that's disturbing to me, too... a 6 portly? for crying out loud!!! I've never been lower than a 10 my whole life, and I have to work my ass off (quite literally) to stay anywhere near it.

and I *like* myself :D and my husband seems pleased :D hee hee down with evil people who think everyone has to be skinny! down with them!!! they'll get theirs... :D

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