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About a year ago, I broke up with a gentleman who felt I was too portly for his tastes. (I'm a size 6. In who's world is that portly??) I told him to go date Heidi Klum with my blessing. Since then, I've done a lot of thinking about the kind of society that produces a physical aesthetic whos daily calorie quota is 800 or less.

I just received the latest Victoria's Secret catalog, and I think I understand. There is a new model on the cover--well, one I don't recognize anyway--and she is beautiful. Big, pouty lips, long hair with enthusiasm all its own, a jaw structure to die for. But her body...she has the figure of my 7-year-old sister. I'm not making use of exaggeration here. She truly looks like a child. No hips, no breasts, no shape. There is a picture of her leaning over, elbow on her knee, and the contrast in thickness between arm and leg is almost unnoticeable.

Toward the middle of the catalog is a spread of nubile-girl in various poses of sexual bliss. It's soft porn at its finest (of course, I read the VS catalog for the articles) but with a Jon Benet look-alike as the centerfold. I felt sick to my stomach.

I wonder if femininity is on the outs. We've become so obsessed with fat count that today's "attractive" women are either breakable or bulging with muscle. I've decided that I like my curves. I like having breasts and hips and a slight softness in my thighs. I like filling out my clothes in all the right places, and I love the fact that my body is very different from my baby sister's.

And after breaking up with jerk-boy, I've decided that I'm not going to bust my butt trying to lose those last 5 pounds. No matter how beautiful the next VS cover child is.

Date: 2004-10-06 12:15 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] matociquala.livejournal.com
Run right out and rent all of the Avengers episodes with Honor Blackman and Diana Rigg. They are both slender, yes--but their arms are round and firm, and their cheeks are filled out, and their calves are strong. They have asses and thighs and physical presence.

Those are beautiful women.

Date: 2004-10-06 01:20 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] raecarson.livejournal.com
I recently noticed that Netflix rents out the Avengers. It's been on my must-see list for a while now. And yes, she is beautiful!

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